We first broke up in May and then still continued to act like bf and gf at times. then the "real" breakup happened in October. I still cant get over it and I feel like its a mistake because I cant stop thinking about him. Im happier overall out of the relationship but I miss him so much. He'll always be part of my life in some way. Well I hope that he allows that. Anyway does any one have any good tips for me?
Get over it. This is why guys love to get their hands on girls fresh out of relationships, they are vunerable and ripe for the picking. If you don't realize that all us men are DOGS and we are after one thing then you need to wake up. My guess is that your boyfriend is already nailing someone else and has already forgotten about you. Oh sure he'll be nice to your face and be all mushy around you, but with one goal in sight and it isn't to continue the loving relationship you had. Move on, have fun, and maintain your dignity. The more wines you taste the easier it is to spot a good one!
"Well I hope that he allows that"
That right there screams of desperation. You need to move on , don't give this guy another thought! The best revenge you can get is to get yourself together !
He knows you can't get over it and that's why he's using you during the "slow" times. Your nobody's backup, you deserve better and you'll find it if you respect yourself enough to stop letting this (or any) guy do that to you!
You're obviously either very young or this was you're first relationship. Whatever the case may be, you need to get over it and him! Almost anyone who's ever been in a relationship has at some time or another, can understand what you're feeling and going through - and they will all tell you that life is too short to waste your time hung up on someone who obviously doesn't care enough about you to make a commitment or at least reciprocate your feelings. This guy sounds like a jerk and he's getting exactly what he wants from you - whenevr HE wants it! Dump him and let it all hang out! There's way too much fun going on out there while you sit around and cry over this one!
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That right there screams of desperation. You need to move on , don't give this guy another thought! The best revenge you can get is to get yourself together !
He knows you can't get over it and that's why he's using you during the "slow" times. Your nobody's backup, you deserve better and you'll find it if you respect yourself enough to stop letting this (or any) guy do that to you!