Hollywood: I think it is a good thing. It brings important issues into the spot light and if nothing else gets people thinking about both sides of the argument
Roughjewel: I supported this guy for yrs. Still give rides & put food in home plus whatever else if we need it. Yet he trys to always make me out to be the bad 1
STAYING AT A FRIEND'S APARTMENT INSTEAD OF MY GIRLFRIEND'S
HelpMe`s Argument
So there was some confusion of whether or not I was going to stay at my girlfriend's apartment one night. I called her when I got out of my last class at around 8:00 pm, and she told me that she was going to go to bed early and that I shouldn't come over. So I decided to go meet a friend for a quick drink before heading home. When I was about to leave my friend was like "why don't you just stay down at my apartment?" At first I said no and started out to catch my train but then I realized I wasn't going to make the train so I turned around and went back to his apartment. My girlfriend went crazy because she said I should have stayed at her apartment. And when I told her that I didn't even think about that (since she lives all the way down town and I was in midtown right next to my friends apartment and because in the back of my mind I remembered her telling me earlier that I shouldn't go to her apartment because she was going to bed early) she got even more upset and said that was because I didn't care about her and didn't want to see her.
First of all you had plans to stay at her apartment. As soon as you found out that you would be staying in the city you should have made every effort to get down there, especially since she was calling you and obviously didn't go to sleep early like you claim. The distance to get down there is irrelevant. You should have wanted to stay with her and made the trip instead of staying at your friends place. Seems like you probably shouldn't have even gone for drinks but should have went so see if your girlfriend was alright.
your girlfriend is crazy and demands to much attention. she needs to relax and realize that everything you do doesn't have to revolve around her. besides she told you not to come over to begin with.
First of all dude you did nothing wrong because your girlfriend said to you,
"no, I'm going to bed early."...anyway, something like this. Is your girlfriend insecure about something? Have you engaged in other acts with other women to make her insecure or is she already insecure from a past relationship or childhood? I do not judge you for you walking your pathway. We are just seeing who is wrong here. The point is that if you did nothing wrong, then you did nothing wrong. I voted against you at first then I realized this site is abit tricky before you know what you're doing. I then voted that you are right.
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